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    Shaykh Ibn e Uthayemeen (Rahimahullah) se sawaal kiya gaya ke: Main aur mera bhai ek hi makaan mein rehte hain...... lekin aaba o ajdad (baap dada) se hume ye aadat warse mein mili hai ke mard auraten sab ekaththa baith jaatey hain....... walid sahaab se bhi baat ki ke hume is munkar aadat par qayam nahi rehna chahiye...... to ye sun kar walid sahaab kehne lage ke Allah ki qasam! Agar tum ney aisa kiya to main tumhe chhod jaaunga aur tumhare sath kabhi nahi baaithunga? Mere kayi bhaiyon ney bhi is masley mein walid sahaab ka saath diya lehaza rehnumayee ke liye darkhawast karta hun, kya mera mauqif sahih nahi hai?

    Jawaab: Han aap is buri aur shariyat ke mukhalif aadat se mana karne mein haqq par hain, Biwiyon par ye wajib hai ke wo apne shauhar ke bhaiyon se parda karen, un ke saamney neez bazaar mein aadmiyon ke saamney chehre ko khula rakhna halaal nahi hai, apne dewaron ke saamney chehre ko zahir karna zyada khatarnaak hai kiunki dewar to ghar mein hi rehta hoga ya mehmaan ki haisiyat se aksar aata jaata hoga aur ghar mein us ke aane jaane par jab koi rok tok na hogi to is ka khatra bhi bohot hoga_

    Yehi wajah hai ke Nabi (ﷺ) ney aurton ke paas jaane se mana karte huwe farmaya: "Aurton ke paas jaane se bacho! To ek ansari sahabi (Radhiallahu Anhu) ney arz kiya: Ya Rasoolallah (ﷺ)! Dewar ke bare me Aap kya irshaad farmate hain? Aap (ﷺ) ney farmaya ke: "Dewar to maut Hai." [Sahih Bukhaari Hadees 5232, Sahih Muslim Hadees 2172]

    Matlab yeh hai ki us se to is tarha door bhaagna chahiye jis tarha insaan maut se door bhaagta hai_ Ye kalima ke "dewar to maut hai" ek aazeem tehzeeri (daraane aur hoshyaar karne waala) kalima hai, is liye main kehta hun ke aap ney jo is aadat se roka hai to aap ka ye aamal sahih hai aur aap ke walid sahaab ney jo ye kaha hai ke aagar tumne aisa kiya yane (means) aurton ko un ke dewaron se parda karaya to main tumhare sath nahi rahunga to main unhein bhi ye nasihat karta hun ke wo haqq ko qubool karen aur haqq ki mukhalifat aadaat ki parwa na karen, Allah Ta'ala se daren aur is baat ka to unhein sab se pehle hukm deyna chahiye tha ke aurten gair mehram se parda karen taake wo apne ghar ke achche sarbarah (head) sabit hon.... beshak mard apne ghar ka nigehbaan hai aur apni rai’yyat (muraad matahet) ke bare me jawaab deh (answerable) hai!

    Fatawa Islamiya Jild 3 Safa 101, 102.
     
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